…a folk musician.
There are any number of reasons why I haven’t become one in this lifetime, only one being a lack of any obvious talent. Perhaps if I hadn’t gone abroad when I did, I might have inveigled myself into a group of musicians and played a little more, and a little more regularly. Perhaps if I’d practised more I’d have been a little better! Perhaps if I’d actually learned to read music properly I could have learned more tunes properly. Who knows?
I could play both the guitar and mandolin fairly competently, if nothing more. It has been many years now, though, since I owned either – or a fiddle or a whistle either, come to that, both of which I had pretensions of being able to play, at least a little. I still play a pretty mean air mandolin, though, and my air guitar licks would put Richard Thompson to shame, although so far I’ve had limited success with my Henry Parker air guitarwork – unfortunately he uses a different tuning. I am occasionally tempted to buy another mandolin, or perhaps a guitar, but if I’m realistic I have to admit I would never devote the time to them that would be required. It’s going to remain one of those dreams realised only in my imagination.
But a note for that other lifetime: I’m not one of those folk who have to be the very best at whatever they attempt, otherwise they feel it isn’t worth the effort. I wouldn’t have to be a star, I’d be content to be a session musician, a backing musician. Just to make a living doing something you love is awesome and something not given to many. Or not even to make a living, perhaps, just to make music with others is a delight and I could still be happy with it being a spare time occupation.
So, sticking to going to gigs and listening to CDs this time around.

Identified with this completely. Still regret giving up playing the piano…..wasn’t great shakes at it but like you, loved it just for the joy of making music.
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Yes, exactly that. I really should start playing something again.
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…and perhaps you should, too?
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Toying with the idea. Good luck to both of us.😊
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Can I politely point out you still could! There should be some pub sessions around, all comers welcome, jump in and join in!
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Oh, I could. It’s time! Since I retired, I don’t seem to have a moment spare!
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I hear this from my retired friends and frankly I can’t wait 😀
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I can certainly recommend it. I should have done it years ago. In fact, I should have gone straight to retirement and skipped the working for a living bit.
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Hahaha me too!
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I actually did try to become a folk singer but ended up majorly embarrassing myself. I’m happy it didn’t work out because I don’t think I could have handled success in that world.
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I always feel I could never handle success and maybe fame, either. But just occasionally I think it might have been nice to have the opportunity to find out…
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Never once have I encountered an air mandolin player. That made me laugh, from the sheer improbability of it. I was a music major in college for a time, but I soon figured out that math was involved, at least in the theory classes, a lot of practice was required, and the end of it all probably would be teaching music in a junior high school, since I never would make it into a professional symphony or chamber group.
Eventually, I figured out that every musician needs an audience, and now I content myself with being the best listener I can be.
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Ooh, you obviously haven’t seen my air mandolin! ’tis quite a sight!
Yes, lots of practice involved, unfortunately. I was never any good at the discipline of scales and suchlike. But if you can play music, I think you’re good at listening to music.
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This was such an interesting read! I sometimes wonder about this question, too, but I do love being a writer!
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Ah, all these ‘what ifs?’, Damyanti. I might even have been a different sort of writer. Or is that a subject for another post?
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That was a fun, “I could have been.” Of course, if you’d have gone for heavy metal or punk it’s possible talent may not have been a requirement – simply the ability to make as much noise as possible, semi-consistently.
I never attempted an instrument. I can barely type.
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I’m sure you could learn an instrument without being able to type, Dave. Plenty of non-keyboard type instruments are available. For some reason I’m seeing you as a bass player.
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I think many of us have regrets and things we didn’t pursue. But it’s not too late for you, I think!
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I’m not sure, Ann. I really don’t seem to have the time, especially as I seem to have so many other projects going on.
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Hi Mick, I never learned to play an instrument, it was too expensive to have lessons when I was young and it’s never been high enough on my list of desires as an adult. I am very admiring of people who can play.
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I had a few guitar lessons when I was a teenager, but other than that I was self-taught. I was very keen at the time, but other things began to get in the way.
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I suppose I could teach myself too, but art and writing interest me more.
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And there’s only so much time!
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